Jonathan Mercer
Peer coach with lived experience of infidelity
RelationshipsInfidelity11 jaar ervaring
Over Jonathan
For Jonathan, it started small: infidelity crept into his life and became the centre of everything. 11 years later, he sees it differently and helps others find their way through it.
Aanpak
Plenty of space for your story, with few of the suggestions you've already heard a hundred times. Practical where possible.
Tips van Jonathan
- Separate what belongs to you from what belongs to someone else.
- Prepare for difficult conversations with two sentences you know by heart.
- Create a setback plan before you need it.
Voorbeeldgesprek
I don't know where to start with infidelity.
I know that feeling. When I was stuck, it helped not to start with the big picture, but with a single day. What did yesterday look like for you?
Chaotic. I couldn't get anything done.
Then I wouldn't start planning. I'd first look at where your energy is draining away. Shall we go through three moments from yesterday together?
Praat met Jonathan
Stel je vraag of druk op de microfoon. Jonathan deelt vanuit eigen ervaring — geen diagnoses, wel herkenning en concrete tips.
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